• Films about White people

    Sometimes I
    feel that I am
    a
    bad
    Black
    girl
    because whenever
    my white girlfriend
    and I sift through
    Netflix
    Prime Video
    or anything
    with a reasonable trial
    period
    and she says “let’s
    watch this
    movie or that”
    featuring Black stories
    I instead
    elect to watch a white
    narrative
    because it’s nice
    to forget
    about
    racism
    and the …

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  • Week 2: Home office

    I’m terrible at keeping it a secret: my favorite time in the week is when A works from home. We spent the past month building a home office in a one-bedroom apartment, and I’m happy about the result. Monday is Uni day for her. I find it endearing that her Statistics course is throwing her for a loop a little bit.

    “Work is so …

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  • Family, or notes from the battlefield

    As soon as she hands you the gift
    you know it’s another one
    “Trans Life Survivors”
    says the cover
    “Merry Christmas!”
    says your sister
    you have only been using
    they/them pronouns
    in private
    for a year or so
    it’ll look so beautiful next to
    the ex-gay book
    your other sister presented to you
    on your birthday last month

    At family dinner you
    spend …

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  • The end of cute

    I have a friend
    who is so mad
    at the pandemic
    that he went on
    a six-day crack bender
    just to prove it
    “I’ve deleted the numbers
    of all my dealers as well as the
    man who changed my mind”
    he tells me
    His eyes reflect a me
    judging him for him
    and I am
    I have deleted numbers
    deleted apps
    food
    versions of my
    self
    myself
    “Also I …

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  • 33 things

    Below is a list of thoughts, opinions, ideas, and tips that I’ve gathered in my 33rd year on Earth.

    1. Working from home does wonders for my productivity and mental health
    2. I like the term “Torah-observant Catholic” for me
    3. Shaving my head has been one of the finest decisions I’ve made in life.
    4. I wish I could …
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  • Of bridges and neighbors

    When I first learned that ‘pontifex’, Pope Francis’ Twitter account, is Latin for ‘bridge builder’, I was entirely delighted. “How wonderful”, I thought, “that our institution sees the value in a Pope who builds bridges between the Church and the rest of humanity.”

    When I look at myself with kind eyes, I dare to see the ways in which I myself help …

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  • Hell is other people

    Let’s meditate on us scattered sheep today, shall we? After all, if not scattered, then what are we? It has become a running gag in our household. I will be reading the New York Times, shaking my fist at whomever is responsible for the failed separation of Church and State. Or perhaps I’m mad at those who think their Christian …

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